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Music executive, lawyer, and talent manager Ubi Franklin has issued a stark warning to men, describing the decision to have children with multiple women as one of the gravest mistakes a man can make, regardless of his financial capacity. Speaking on his platform "Talks With Ubi Franklin" in a video shared on Wednesday, July 15, 2026, Franklin drew from his personal experience as a father of four children with four different women to caution others against what he described as an emotionally draining and complicated path. His candid confession has since ignited widespread discussion across social media, with many commending his honesty while others debated the complexities of modern relationships and co-parenting.
Franklin, who is also a lawyer and the founder of Made Men Music Group, did not mince words in his address. "One of the worst decisions you can ever make is to have kids with different women," he declared. "Even if you have the money to take care of the children, handling the emotions of the different women is usually the difficult part." He stressed that financial provision, while important, is not the primary challenge. "Taking care of them is not the problem. The problem is in managing the emotions of the adults who are their mothers," he said, urging men to avoid "baby mama drama" at all costs.
Speaking with a tone of reflection rather than regret, Franklin acknowledged that while he has managed to navigate his situation, the journey has been far from easy. "I tried it and survived it, but it is not easy. Not everybody will survive it," he admitted. He advised men to do their utmost to have all their children with one woman, emphasising that while children are among life's greatest blessings, the complications of co-parenting across multiple relationships can become overwhelming. "Children are the best things that can happen in our lives. If you can do anything, make sure you have all your kids with one woman," he advised passionately.
Franklin's personal story lends weight to his warning. He shares a son, Jayden, with actress Lilian Esoro, to whom he was formerly married; a daughter, Zaneta, with an Igala woman; a daughter, Ariella, with businesswoman Sandra Iheuwa; and a son, Shiloh, with South African national Nicole Siyo. In the caption accompanying his video, Franklin demonstrated a commitment to accountability: "Before anyone judges my story, I've already reflected on it. One of the biggest mistakes I made was having children with different women. I love my children deeply, but if my journey can help someone make wiser decisions, then it's worth sharing. This isn't about shame — it's about accountability".
The music executive's remarks have sparked a flurry of reactions online, with social media users sharing mixed opinions. Some praised his candour and willingness to use his personal experiences to caution others about the complexities of co-parenting across multiple relationships. Others, however, offered contrasting views, with one user stating, "Story.. I will still marry four extra women," while another admitted, "You no quick talk, I don born with 3 and half women already". The varied responses highlight the deeply personal and often contentious nature of the topic, reflecting broader societal debates about family structures, masculinity, and responsibility.
Franklin's confession is not entirely new, as he has previously spoken about the challenges of fatherhood and co-parenting. In 2020, he had defended himself against public criticism, stating that having four children from four different women did not make him a bad person. However, his latest remarks represent a more reflective and cautionary tone, explicitly framing his experience as a lesson for others. His willingness to turn personal pain into a public lesson has been widely noted, with observers describing his message as a rare moment of vulnerability from a public figure often associated with the high-energy world of entertainment.
The debate over Franklin's advice touches on deeper issues of family planning, emotional intelligence, and the societal expectations placed on men. While some view his warning as a necessary reality check, others argue that the decision to have children with multiple partners is a personal choice that should not be universally condemned. Regardless of where one stands, Franklin's message has succeeded in sparking a conversation about the often-unspoken challenges of managing relationships across multiple households. As one commentator noted, "Truth is bitter. My gender weh too like drama. If u like hear, if you like don't hear". For Franklin, the goal is clear: to help young men avoid the emotional and relational pitfalls he has personally experienced. "This isn't about shame — it's about accountability," he reiterated, underscoring his belief that growth comes through reflection rather than regret alone.
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